‘Let
us cherish our gifts of creativity and tolerance, denied to so many
countries, and put the ugly, painful, angry times behind us. Let us be
inspired by this old man with the giant heart, and each in our own way,
build our beloved country’
Did
you hear about a woman who went into a major jewelry shop, and had
attendants fluttering around her like butterflies as she chose bracelets,
rings, necklaces, earrings of gold, pearls, emeralds and diamonds as gifts
for her family and friends? She handed over her credit card saying with
satisfaction, “Right, that’s my Christmas shopping done.” And walked
out with her one bag with many little boxes.
I
don’t want to be predictable and call your attention to children in
homes, families by the Beetham. Or the fact that everywhere people
suffered and fought and struggled, as usual. That’s because I don’t
want to take away from the fact that there was definitely something in the
air that took people beyond their ordinary lives.
Take
the fruit and vegetable stalls alone. The crimson piles of sorrel, and
chunky puzzle-shaped ginger waiting to be made into tangy drinks, the
clusters of big black grapes, small sweet green ones, seedy purple ones.
Even the ordinary onions looked like bronzed shiny decorations. Even here,
in the tropics, the weather colludes with us. Mist spreads like
transparent white clouds in the green hills. Coloured lights become
magical in twilight when the light rain comes down like confetti. Cool
breezes play with wind chimes. Lived as it is in a state of heightened
excitement, it brings out the best and worst in us all.
The
sentimental cry easily. The generous give more. The greedy grab. The
stingy hoard. The extravagant are gluttonous. The lonely get suicidal. The
drinkers never stop drinking. The bad drivers, who also never stop
drinking, lose control, crash and kill themselves and others a lot more.
“Well behaved” children whip themselves into frenzy over the tree,
over Santa, over toys. And naughty children become impossible whirlpools.
The
perfectionists never stop till every curtain is changed, every corner of
the house painted, every Christmas dish from the ham, the turkey, the
cakes, the sorrel, the ginger beer is made, the pastel is made. (Sometimes
they finish working on Christmas night and then drop straight asleep
having missed all the festivities.) The amusing are hilarious. The singers
break into song at the slightest encouragement.
Most
of us go about with our hearts thudding over things we haven’t done yet,
and a mild headache (hangover or anxiety take your pick)
which only disappears after Boxing Day. We all let go. The rules
are relaxed. We take off our grown-up masks. We all become children. In
them lies the hope of this festival which to the annoyance of the
religious has taken on pagan qualities of gluttony of food and drink, and
a surfeit of presents,
lights, song and celebration. Children hug and kiss you when they love
you. They cry when they are sad. They are creative. They are colour blind.
They respond to anyone who loves them. They hold nothing back.
This
year in this country we adults have flung bottles and crude words at each
other. We have done worse. We have in our private and public lives, held
divisive views. We have looked on at the marches and the anger from the
blocked roads, and the inflammatory headlines, and feared that we would
lose our rainbow bubble and become divided like another Guyana. We have
shuddered and thought of Bosnia, Israel, Ireland. We have become careless
with our gifts
There
is a man, however, small in stature with a giant spirit, who combines the
honesty and simplicity of children with the power of all that can be good
in adults: a strong sense of justice, of standing up for what you believe,
for taking up the cause of the weak and oppressed.
His
feeling for fellowman has spanned not specific days in a year but
generations, and decades. He can, if we want, bring us back from the
brink. On this New Year’s eve I have taken the liberty to bring us a
gift from President Nelson Mandela with extracts of his inauguration
speech on 10th May 1994.
“Our
deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our
deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It
is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us
We
ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous?
Actually,
who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not
serve the world. There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that
other
People
won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children
do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It’s
not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light
shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As
we’re liberated from our own fear, our presence Automatically liberates
others.
Out
of the experience of an extraordinary human disaster that lasted too long,
must be born a society of which all humanity will be proud. Our daily
deeds as ordinary South Africans must produce an actual South African
reality that will reinforce humanity’s belief in justice, strengthen its
confidence in the nobility of the human soul and sustain all our hopes for
a glorious life for all.
All
this we owe both to ourselves and to the peoples of the world who are so
well represented here today.
To
my compatriots, I have no hesitation in saying that each one of us is as
intimately attached to the soil of this beautiful country as are the
famous jacaranda trees of Pretoria and the mimosa trees of the bushveld.
Each time one of us touches the soil of this land; we feel a sense of
personal renewal. The national mood changes as the seasons change. We are
moved by a sense of joy and exhilaration when the grass turns green and
the flowers bloom. That spiritual and physical oneness we all share with
this common homeland explains the depth of the pain we all carried in our
hearts, as we saw our country tear itself apart in a terrible conflict,
and as we saw it spurned, outlawed and isolated by the peoples of the
world, precisely because it has become the universal base of the
pernicious ideology and practice of racism and racial oppression.
We,
the people of South Africa, feel fulfilled that humanity has taken us back
into its bosom, that we, who were outlaws not so long ago, have today been
given the rare privilege to be host to the nations of the world on our own
soil.
We
thank all our distinguished international guests for having come to take
possession with the people of our country of what is, after all, a common
victory for justice, for peace, for human dignity.
We
trust that you will continue to stand by us as we tackle the challenges of
building peace, prosperity,
non-sexism, non-racialism and democracy.
We
deeply appreciate the role that the masses of our people and their
political mass democratic, religious, women, youth, business, traditional
and other leaders have played to bring about this conclusion.
The
time for the healing of the wounds has come. The moment to bridge the
chasms that divide us has come. The time to build is upon us. We have, at
last, achieved our political emancipation. We pledge ourselves to liberate
all our people from the continuing bondage of poverty, deprivation,
suffering, gender and other discrimination.
We
succeeded to take our last steps to freedom in conditions of relative
peace. We commit ourselves to the construction of a complete, just and
lasting peace. We have triumphed in the effort to implant hope in the
breasts of the millions of our people.
We
enter into a covenant that we shall build the society in which all South
Africans, both black and white, will be able to walk tall, without any
fear in their hearts, assured of their inalienable right to human dignity
- a rainbow nation at peace with itself and the world. We dedicate this
day to all the heroes and heroines in this country and the rest of the
world who sacrificed in many ways and surrendered their lives so that we
could be free.
Their
dreams have become reality. Freedom is their reward. We are both humbled
and elevated by the honour and privilege that you, the people of South
Africa, have bestowed on us, as the first President of a united,
democratic, non-racial, non-sexist South Africa, to lead our country out
of the valley of darkness.
We
understand it still that there is no easy road to freedom. We know it well
that none of us acting alone can achieve success.
We
must therefore act together as a united people, for national
reconciliation, for nation building, for the birth of a new world.”
Are
these the words I ask you of a man who has been incarcerated, tortured,
locked up for most of his life? A man, who has seen his comrades being
shot, tortured, killed, maimed because they believed in justice. A man who
only had long hours in a prison cell as a life? Exchange jacaranda trees
of Pretoria to Poui trees of Port of Spain and the mimosa trees of the
bushveld to the Samaan tree and President Mandela could be speaking to us.
Time
is running out on us. As hard as it is, we have to heed the words of this
great man because once we get on the train of self-destruction, its hard
to get off. Let us cherish our gifts of creativity and tolerance, denied
to so many countries, and put the ugly, painful, angry times behind us.
Let
us be inspired by this old man with the giant heart, and each in our own
way, build our beloved country, work hard to fulfill our potential as
human-beings, protect the weak and dispossessed, deal with our problems
with courage, and above all let us do it together, as one people. Happy
New Year!
